Deciding on a Trip
Nine cards on a balance: what pulls you to go, what holds you back, what you gain and lose either way, and which to choose.
Take it while going is still an open question, to weigh leaving against staying put.
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How to read it
The two top cards are the pull and the hold; read them first and say honestly which is yours and which belongs to someone else. The third names the real purpose of the trip, which often differs from the stated one. The middle row is the balance: the two left cards are for going, the two right for staying, each pair giving first the gain, then the loss. Weigh whole pairs, not single cards. The bottom two are what you fail to take into account, and the answer itself. If the answer contradicts the balance, the decision rests on that overlooked thing, not on profit.
Positions
What pulls you
The force calling you to the road, and how far that wish is your own.
What holds you back
What keeps you here: money, work, fear, an obligation or somebody's request.
The real purpose
What this trip is truly for, beyond the reason you give out loud.
If you go: the gain
What the trip gives you, including what you are not expecting now.
If you go: the cost
What the road will cost: money, work, relationships or peace of mind.
If you stay: the gain
What you win by staying: time, money, stability or an important meeting here.
If you stay: the loss
What you miss by not going, and whether that chance comes round again.
What you overlook
The circumstance that changes the whole calculation but is not yet on your list.
What to choose
The spread's direct answer and the condition under which that answer holds.
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