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Finding Love

Nine cards in an arc for someone currently alone. The spread runs from your present state, through what has to be released, to the meeting and its first real test.

Take it if you are single and want to look toward meeting someone, not back at the past.

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How to read it

Read the arc left to right, as a climb and a descent. The first four cards are about you, and they matter more than the rest: until two and three are worked through, card five stays a promise. Card five, at the top, describes the meeting itself, the circumstances rather than the person's particulars. Card six says who they are in essence, card seven names the first test, which arrives sooner than expected. Card eight gives a concrete instruction for keeping the bond from crumbling at that test. Card nine shows what this love becomes.

Positions

  1. Where you are now

    Your state before the meeting: what there is too much of in you, and what is missing.

  2. What closes the door

    The belief or habit of yours that keeps new people from staying anywhere near you.

  3. What to release

    The person, hope or grievance from the past that occupies the place of a future love.

  4. What in you is ready

    The grown part of you that is genuinely capable of closeness right now.

  5. The meeting

    The circumstances of the meeting: where and through what a new person enters your life.

  6. Who they are

    The core quality of this person, by which you will recognise them among others.

  7. The first test

    What tests this bond in its first months and what comes to the surface then.

  8. What to do

    The concrete action that carries the bond through that test without letting it fall apart.

  9. What this love becomes

    What this bond becomes for you within a year and what it teaches you.

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