An Online Romance
Nine cards for a bond that exists only in messages: who he really is, what he shows, what he hides, what you are waiting for and whether a meeting happens.
Take it for a bond that exists only in messages, not for people you work with in person.
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How to read it
The left column is him: first who he really is, then what he shows, then what he hides. Read downward and compare the first with the second: the distance between them is the measure of his honesty. The right column is you: what you see in him, what you feel and what you are waiting for. There is often a gap here too, and it is worth admitting. The middle column is the bond itself: what is actually happening between you, what prevents a meeting and how it ends. If the middle is weaker than the sides, you both love the correspondence rather than each other.
Positions
Who he really is
The real person behind the messages: his character, situation and way of living.
What he shows
The image he builds for you and how much truth there is in it.
What he hides
What he does not name: another woman, debts, a family, his age or circumstances.
What you see in him
How you picture him and how much of that image is your own invention.
Your feeling
What you actually feel: love, loneliness, excitement or the habit of waiting.
What you are waiting for
What you want from this story: a meeting, a relationship, proof or simply warmth.
What is between you
What is actually happening between you, apart from words on a screen.
What prevents meeting
The real reason the meeting keeps being postponed from one week to the next.
How it ends
How this story ends and what of it stays with you.
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